Tuesday, July 06, 2010

LUCKY BABY - Meredith Efken - Free Book

Welcome, Meredith. Tell us how much of yourself you write into your characters.


I think almost all of my characters have a little something of me in them. It would be really hard for me to really understand their emotions and make them realistic if we had no common ground at all. But I try to be careful to not make my stories too autobiographic because I want to protect the other people in my life from feeling exposed.

What is the quirkiest thing you have ever done?

Right now, I’m trying to learn to speak Welsh. It’s a lovely language and quite fun, but I suppose it might qualify as a bit quirky. I’d be making more progress if I had a study partner or a class, but there’s nothing like that in my area of the country.

When did you first discover that you were a writer?

I was attempting to write before I could even read, and I actually can’t remember a time when I was not making up stories. So it’s something that’s always been a part of who I am. I just didn’t realize that a career as a novelist was something I could realistically try for until about eleven years ago. Once I started learning how the publishing world works, then it seemed like the most natural thing in the world for me to work toward.

Tell us the range of the kinds of books you enjoy reading.

I am a bit eclectic. I love Jane Austen and the Regency time period, and I really enjoy well-written Regency romances by authors like Julia Quinn and Eloisa James. But I also enjoy women’s fiction and magical realism. I also really love character-driven fantasy, and some historical novels. I’m a huge Harry Potter fan, and I have also been enjoying some memoir and essayists, such as Annie Dillard and Anne Lamott.

What other books have you written, whether published or not?

I have three previous published books—loosely known as the SAHM series: SAHM I Am, @Home For The Holidays, and Play It Again SAHM. They are comedies about stay-at-home mothers who are friends through an email discussion group. The story is told through their emails, and later their text messages, online chat and IMs to each other.

They were a lot of fun, but I’m looking forward to moving in a different direction with my writing now. Lucky Baby is my first step toward a more Alice Hoffman feel of women’s fiction with magical realism. I’m developing some more stories along that line as well as working on a more traditional fantasy series.

How do you keep your sanity in our run, run, run world?

I refuse to run, run, run unless it’s something I am passionate about doing. Of course, there’s always the daily life sort of things—meals to fix, children to taxi about—but I’ve learned to say no to a lot of things and not worry so much about the expectations of other people who say “but it’s always been done this way.” I’m all about finding a different way of doing it if it works out better for me.

How do you choose your characters’ names?

Sometimes, I pick a name according to the meaning, but sometimes the name seems to attach itself to the character. For example, my Lucky Baby protagonist, Meg Lindsay, was originally a different “M” name that was a nickname. The problem was that somewhere along the way I stopped thinking of her as that name and started thinking of her as “Meg” instead. So I gave up and renamed her.

Other times, I choose a name according to the person’s ethnic heritage. Deciding on Chinese names for my characters was a bit tricky because the Chinese have a very culturally-based naming system that takes into account not just the meaning but also the sounds and the homonyms of the names and other connotations that a person outside that culture (like me) would have no way of knowing. So I had to be careful.

I’m working on a story right now that is set in Wales, so I’m having fun choosing Welsh names. Fortunately, for this story I have some Welsh friends who are helping me.

What is the accomplishment that you are most proud of?

I am currently shepherding my two daughters through all the girl-trials of tweenhood and adolescence. They’re doing wonderfully, and if they end up as amazing as they are now, that will be the accomplishment that brings me the most satisfaction.

If you were an animal, which one would you be, and why?

I’d probably choose a fantasy creature—maybe a Chinese dragon. They aren’t feared and hunted as European dragons are. They’re respected as wise and benevolent, and they’re quite beautiful. If I had to relinquish opposable thumbs and walking upright, I think iridescent scales and the Pearl of Heaven might just be an acceptable trade-off.

What is your favorite food?

Chocolate—no question about it. Especially dark chocolate. But I love fruit as well—cherries, mangos, pineapples, raspberries—it’s the sweet-tooth thing.

What is the problem with writing that was your greatest roadblock, and how did you overcome it?

My biggest hurdle is my own expectations. Like most artists, I’m a perfectionist, and when I feel that I’m going to fail to live up to my impossible standards, I freeze up. The last time it happened was with Lucky Baby because the story is so intensely personal to me (my oldest daughter is adopted from China) and I felt that I could not do justice to the experience.

I am still learning how to work with my creative process in this area. I have to try to take out all the emotions and negative self-talk and sort out that from legitimate weaknesses in the plot or character development. But the best thing I did this last time was to work with a creativity coach who helped me get past that mental block and find my passion again for the story.

What advice would you give to an author just starting out?

Love writing, and be teachable. Too many writers want the finished result (a published book) but they don’t really want to commit themselves to the art of words. Other writers aren’t willing to learn and study and at least honestly consider feedback from others. At some point, you have to have enough confidence in your own creative vision to pursue it even if others are saying it won’t work, but too many beginners want to start from that point. Creative confidence develops as you gain experience and as you learn.

Tell us about the featured book?

Lucky Baby is the story of a Chicago couple that makes the improbable choice to adopt a child from China. It’s also the story of two Chinese orphans and the life journeys that take them in completely different directions.

I wanted the story to be a look at what happens after the “happy ever after ending” of the orphan finding a family. That’s never the end of the story. In our American culture of family dysfunction, I wanted to explore the different ways that people can be abandoned by their families of origin and the journey that they take to form a new family and learn to love each other.

I found it very hard to put into words the adoption experience and the experience of becoming a mother. To help with that, I turned to magical realism, which is a way of writing that brings the fantastic into the realm of the every day and makes the every-day a miraculous world. This let me add in Chinese mythology and symbolism as well as some of our contemporary Chinese adoption “mythology”—like ladybugs being a harbinger of adoption news, or the idea of a red thread connecting parents to their little ones. Adoption really is a miraculous journey, and it was fun to render that “magic” in literary form.

Please give us the first page of the book.

Wen Ming, April 2001

The woman of my earliest memory has no body. Just a round face with skin like a plum. Smooth and tight. Firm. A smiling plum with dimples. She is not my mama. I don’t remember my mama.
Many years later, now that I am nearly grown, there are other things I remember. They are only pieces, like torn bits of a blurred photo. Sometimes I don’t know what is real memory and what my mind has filled in for me, but I think most of our lives happen in our minds, so it doesn’t bother me.
I remember a misty rain that smelled like the ocean and dead earthworms; massive concrete steps and the ache in my legs as I climbed them; the fuzzy nubs of my blanket, and its unchanging odor of old sundried sheets, steamed rice, and sour water. The blanket corner caught a step and I tripped. The woman grabbed my hand tighter and told me, “You should be more careful. Now hurry.”
We did.
Not the hurry of going to the park for tai chi. Not the hurry of getting to the market before all the best fish were taken. Not the hurry of peeling off my many layers of clothing to squat over the toilet. Those normal sorts of hurry never turned my fingers into clammy, day-old rice noodles, never set an eel to swimming in my stomach. This hurry was the nightmare that chased me down dark alleys in my mind and swallowed me with its nothingness.
I was too small to fight it, but I did drag my feet. She tugged my arm. I shuffled after her. I had no choice.
How can readers find you on the Internet?
My website is http://www.meredithefken.com/ . I’m also on Facebook and Twitter: “Meredith Efken.” Readers might also enjoy my profile on Amazon.com and the Author Portal at Simon & Schuster. (http://authors.simonandschuster.com/Meredith-Efken/35083379 )
I would love readers to register on my website because I am building a community of readers who will have access to exclusive extras and special content, as well as have a chance to get better acquainted with me and each other. We’re still building this part of the site, so I’d love people to register and get in at the very beginning of this exciting new phase.

Thank you, Meredith, for this fascinating peek into your life and your new book.

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32 comments:

Katrina said...

I would really enjoy reading this one!

holdenj said...

I really enjoyed the interview with Meredith. I am intrigued by her magical realism idea in this novel of adoption. Thanks for the chance to win!

karenk said...

please count me in...thanks :)

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grannyvon said...

There's something drawing about the adoption process. There have been good outcomes and bad ones too.I would love to win this book. Oh, an great interview. ybuler@oppcatv.com

Casey said...

Please enter me, this book looks good! Thanks!

fredamans said...

Please count me in! Thank you.

Cherie J said...

Enjoyed the interview. Sounds like a book I would enjoy reading. Please enter me. Thank you!

Marla said...

Great interview. Please include me in the drawing. Thank you.

Marla

Edna said...

I would love this


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Cindy W. said...

I thoroughly enjoyed the interview. I think it's wonderful that you wanted to write a book about adoption a child from another country when you yourself have gone through the process. No better research then that! I would love to win your book Meredith, thank you for the chance.

Blessings,
Cindy W.

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Deborah said...

please enter me! i'm a HUGE fan of Meredith's books and being Asian-American I'm always interested in Christian fiction books that deal with Asian culture

Lou Ann said...

Great interview. Would like the opportunity to win "Lucky Baby" please.

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Nancye said...

WOW!! I really would LOVE to win this book!! My daughter was also adopted from China (6 years ago). Small world! After reading the first chapter, I was hooked! This book sounds wonderful! Thanks for the chance.

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Simply Stacie said...

Please count me in.

Wendy said...

Wow -sounds like a different, interesting book. Always looking for those.

Julia M. Reffner said...

I would love to read this book. My husband and I are praying about adopting from an orphanage for children of martyrs in India so I'm really interested in reading anything about adoption right now.

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lotus82 said...

This sounds like a tearjerker. I love that all the characters have some part of the author in them.

~Steph
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apple blossom said...

please include me thanks.
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Anna W. said...

Sounds great! Please enter me!

Meredith Efken said...

Hi everyone! Thanks for leaving all the comments--I'm glad you enjoyed the interview. I can't wait to send one of you my book. The whole adoption thing is obviously dear to my heart--congrats to those of you who have or are in the process of adopting. It's quite the adventure!

sharon54220 said...

I loved the interview and I love the sounds of the book. I know it's a novel, but I'm adopted and I love reading books on the subject.

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Linda Kish said...

This sounds like a terrific story.

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Judylynn said...

Please enter me in this giveaway - Thanks!

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bluerose_shelnut said...

Please enter me. I would love to read more about adoption!

Brenda said...

Would love to read the book, the cover art is great!

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Maureen said...

This book sounds great. I've heard that Welsh is hard to learn, I admire you!
Maureen

Robyn said...

Thanks for such an interesting interview. Please enter me.

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Patsy said...

Sounds like a great book. Count me in on the giveaway.
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lotus82 said...

THis looks like such a good book!!!! Looking forward to reading it.

~Steph
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wmmahaney said...

This sounds like a great book.
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Molly(Buukluvr81) said...

Count me in for this one please!

Megan (Inspired by Fiction) said...

Wow, this book sounds great, the separated siblings is a really interesting addition to the storyline. And I LOVE the cover!