Thursday, March 31, 2011

A STILL AND QUIET SOUL - Cathy Messecar - Free Book

Welcome, Cathy. So glad to have you back on the blog.

Lena, a very genuine thank you for the blog interviews you host. May God bless your spirit of sharing and may he multiply the effects of author’s words written for Him in 2011.

Why do you write the kind of books you do?

I write because everywhere in everyday life I find that God teaches me or he reminds me about himself. I’m a teacher at heart, and I find nonfiction devotionals and study books an avenue of reminding Christians to shine.

Besides when you came to know the Lord, what is the happiest day in your life?

My wedding day when I vowed to love David forever. (The next happiest when he returned from a year long stint with the army in Vietnam.)

I understand that. My oldest grandson just returned from his deployment. This time to Afghanistan. How has being published changed your life?

I think it’s humbling. First, to know that God entrusted me with stories, phrases, insight into scriptures, and venues to share with others. I’m still amazed that publishers think my words worth sharing. After all, they’re just what I call “farmscribe” words, down-to-earth, common sense, straight from this horse’s mouth.

What are you reading right now?

I’m reading Zondervan’s The Bible in 90 Days, so I guess I’m working on 66 books. I always have my bookmarks in several books at one time. These are the books I’m reading and re-reading right now: The Gospel of Ruth ~ Loving God Enough to Break the Rules by Carolyn Custis James, Babes with a Beatitude ~ Devotions for Smart, Savvy Women of Faith by and Linda P. Kozar and Dannelle Woody, and My Utmost for His Highest by Oswald Chambers. I have a copy of The Help by Kathryn Stockett that I’ll start reading soon.

What is your current work in progress?

Since, I just finished A Still and Quiet Soul: Embracing Contentment, I’m brain-twiddling to figure out what to offer up next. I have another devo manuscript almost finished: Tambourines and Tear Bottles (working title), and I want to write some more group study books. I’m looking over lesson series that I wrote and taught to women’s classes in the past; maybe I’ll work on rewriting those to a current audience. I’m also writing a series for my newspaper column in 2011 that could turn into a yearly devotional, taking them one verse at a time through the books of the Bible.

What would be your dream vacation?

Christmas in Bethlehem and then an extended tour of the Holy Lands.

How do you choose your settings for each book?

I don’t write much fiction. Although A Still and Quiet Soul: Embracing Contentment does have a chapter where part of it is biblical fiction entitled “Wait, Elizabeth—God Has a Surprise for You Too.” It’s about embracing contentment during our waits and how God’s answers are far superior to our wishes and wants. I do have a complete fiction manuscript, and it has a rural, small town setting because that’s what I know.

If you could spend an evening with one person who is currently alive, who would it be and why?

A biblical scholar. My ancient copy of the Bible is strewn with question marks. And, I’d point to the first question mark I placed beside verses in the book of Genesis and say, “Start here….tell me what you’ve discovered that this means?” David Bivin in Jerusalem, Israe,l is probably my first choice. Or Paul Maier, NT scholar. I’m about to start his novel, The Skeleton in God’s Closet.

I've read that novel. You'll find it interesting and thought provoking. What are your hobbies, besides writing and reading?

While I don’t collect teapots, teacups, and tea things anymore (just occasionally I will still buy something at a flea market), I really enjoy hosting people in our home: one or more for a meal, a grandchild, or a few women for a luncheon. Nothing stressful. Because I’m Martha-to-the-bone on some days, I keep meals simple, and do my best to invest my time in my guests.

Sounds like a place I'd like to visit. What is your most difficult writing obstacle, and how do you overcome it?

Paperwork and little time. In our business I have many things of which to keep track. Did you know truckers with apportioned tags have to keep records, besides log books, of every single road they drive on, where they buy fuel, how much they bought and the price per gallon? That’s in addition to all the other records we are required to keep. At this stage in life we are also providing comfort and care to our aging parents—four of them in their 80s and 90s. How I overcome my obstacles: I’ve hired help with our business paperwork, and that alone gives me more time to meet my family’s needs. I’ve also dropped out of all outside organized activities because of my present circumstances with parents’ needs. The excellent thing about writing is that I can write at 10:00 p.m. or 3:00 a.m. Every day, I’m grateful for this outlet of expression which fits into the servant role God has called me to with our trucking business, parents, children, and grands.

What advice would you give to a beginning author?

This hint comes via Anne Lamott, in Bird by Bird she recommends keeping index cards in purse, briefcase, car, or in a jeans’ pocket, ready at all times, to write down keen thoughts, overheard conversations, sights, sounds, colors or textures. I’ve been doing this for years, and have found exact scenes and sentences to use my jotted hints. They remain fresh and bring vibrancy to dialogue or settings.

Tell us about the featured book.

A Still and Quiet Soul: Embracing Contentment covers topics such as worry, complaining, clutter, or how our thoughts contribute to discontentment. The book is designed for individual or group Bible study. Each chapter contains my study, thoughts, and anecdotes about the topic connected to learning contentment, eight study questions, two praise and petition scriptures upon which to meditate. Also, in each chapter I’ve included one personal essay from male and female Christians, who struggled with contentment and how they arrived at a better place.

Please give us the first page of the book.

Here’s the foreword and the first page:

Dear Reader:

I’m keenly aware of those times when total contentment settles upon me, when nothing niggles at my conscience causing unrest. I include in this list the nights when my adult children and their children rest safe and sound in their homes. They abide in their nests, as my husband and I do in ours. Add a soft rainfall, evidence of God tending the earth, and my night becomes ideal. Those circumstances come as close to perfect as nights on this earth ever could. Contentment sweeps over me. A sweet sleep descends.

But what about opposite days when life-glitches hobble me? Sometimes, it seems the smallest negative happening can topple a glass of milk into my day, soaking the seams of morning, noon, and evening, dampening what I thought would be a beatitude day, a blessed day. On those days, what causes my thoughts to turn from blessed to beat down? Can I ignore the spilled milk and go about my day contented, extending goodwill to others?

God wrote the ultimate Contentment Manual, so this study guide, A Still and Quiet Soul: Embracing Contentment, serves only as a supplement. We’ll consider how biblical characters faced their ordinary days, their disappointments, and their triumphs. You’ll read first-person accounts of current believers and sidle up to their mishaps and successes to see anew how prayer, trust, and, praise undergirds contentment.

Journey with me and let’s discover what—or better yet—Who, nurtures contentment within each of us.

….Cathy Messecar

Chapter One


~ Contentment ~

But I have stilled and quieted my soul;
like a weaned child with its mother,
like a weaned child is my soul within me.
Psalm 131:2

The psalmist’s reflections about quieting himself waltzed around in my heart for months. They slow-danced with questions about contentment, but the waltz faltered when I remembered the many difficulties in life. Soon, the waltz stopped completely, as I imagined contentment wrapping her arms around tragic events. How is it possible for contentment and tragedies to remain in rhythm?

Allow your mind to dwell on contentment for a week or so and questions will surface. I don’t have all the answers, but I’ve experienced enough of life to know that learning contentment is worth the journey.

Consider the psalmist’s portrayal of his quieted soul:

My heart is not proud, O LORD,
my eyes are not haughty;
I do not concern myself with great matters
or things too wonderful for me.
But I have stilled and quieted my soul;
like a weaned child with its mother,

How can readers find you on the Internet? or or Facebook: or Twitter: scribbler2854 or my co-authored Christmas blog. We post from July-December

Thank you, Cathy, for this interesting glimpse into your life.

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Patsy said...

Cathy's book sounds really good. I enjoyed reading the first page. Yes, I agree, some days everything is right with the world, then on other days it seems like everything goes wrong. Would love to read her book.
From the Bible Belt

Anonymous said...


Annette W. said...

The title alone sounds great!!

From PA

Coolestmommy said...

Love, love, loved the first page. It was so profound to me right now, today, where I am in life. Thank you!!!

coolestmommy2000 at gmail dot com

Cathy Messecar said...

Hi, Patsy, Anonymous, Annette, and Robyn. Thank you for your interst in embracing calm and and contentment in your lives.

Best wishes to all. Here's a quote/question from chapter Eight, "Jacob, God Has a Surprise for You."

"Can my ego be satisfied living out the Christian cliche, 'Let go, and let God'?"

I'll be posting other quotes from the book today. If you have time let your friends on Facebook and Twitter know about the contest.

Lena, you're a honey for hosting me. Thank you.

Linda Kish said...

I would love to read this book.


lkish77123 at gmail dot com

Cathy Messecar said...

Hi, Linda, thanks for dropping by Lena's blog and leaving a comment for an opportunity to win my book: A Still and Quiet Soul: Embracing Contentment.

I'm sharing quotes from the book as people leave comments. Here's one from chapter one: "Challenging aspects of life can certainly gimp the day, but only if we allow it."

Anonymous said...

I would love to be included in this drawing. Miriam from Ohio

Pam K. said...

I'm getting better at having a still and quiet soul but I imagine this book would help me during the times it is difficult. Please enter me in the book drawing.
Thank you from Kansas.


holdenj said...

A Still and Quite Soul seems like a great book would love to be able to read it. I liked Cathy's comment about keeping index cards to jot down thoughts and impressions. Whether or not you ever plan on becoming a full-fledged author, it sounds like a good way to collect your thoughts and memories. Thanks for the info and chance to win.
Julie in MN

karenk said...

a beautiful book...thanks for the chance to read it :)

karenk...from PA
kmkuka at yahoo dot com

Norma said...

This sounds like a book I should read! Norma in Saskatchewan

Unknown said...

This sounds like a very needed book. Would love to win it. Thanks!
Nauvoo, IL


Anonymous said...

Please include me for a chance to win this book, loved the first page....

Mona G.

amber said...

Please enter me!!

afren07[at]gmail[dot]com from TN

apple blossom said...

please include me in this giveaway thanks.

ABreading4fun [at] gmail [dot] com said...

I would love to win a copy of your book! Thanks.

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Kristen said...

Sounds like a book that I could use! Please enter me into the drawing.

Kristen in TX
jkfreitas at sbcglobal dot net

Cathy Messecar said...

Hello, to all who left a comment yesterday. Thank you for stopping by Lena's blog.

I'm sharing additional quotes from "A Still and Quiet Soul: Embracing Contentment" for those who stop by. Have a Happy Saturday!

This is from Chapter Six, "Bedazzled."

"I admit, I like a nice rhinestone as well as the next girl, but glitz is wearing thin. When I cleaned out my closet, I noticed how many garments and shoes sparkled, and I questioned which shines brighter--my inside-Jesus-spirit or the glitter I wear?"

Anonymous said...

Hi include my name in the drawing, would love to win this book.

Angela C.
From Ohio

Nancye said...

This sounds like a great book! Thanks for the chance.

Nancye in Kentucky

nancyecdavis AT bellsouth DOT net

Andy and Ana said...

Good Lord's Day Sister Cathy :) Greetings from the Victorian Town of Ferndale, Ca.where the church of Christ meets when two or more are gathered together in Christ name.I'm a caregiver wife of disable vet due to his disability, we worship at home. Would really enjoy adding your free-book 'A Still and Quiet Soul'...embracing contentment to my library right next to 'The Stained Glass Pickup'. Cathy,I also enjoy jotting quotes & anecdotes to use on my blog when sharing books I love. Glad I found you. Your a bookmark favorite. Sincerely, Your Sister in Christ, Ana Harshaw
p.s. Who ever wins will be blessed to read your books and blog. Please visit my blot & leave a comment. I would sure appreciate the fellowship. ana

Anonymous said...

This sounds like a great book and I would like to win in...please enter me in the drawing. Thanks

Shirley T. in Illinois

Cathy Messecar said...

Drawing for this book will be on the 9th. So, please tell your friends about the opportunity to enter and possibly win.

Thanks for the newbies that have stopped by Lena's blog.

Here's another quote from the book, Chapter 11: "Nourish Your Thought Life": "There's a party going on in the Bible. Have you noticed?"

Blessings, all...Cathy